Divorce is almost always viewed through a lens of negativity, but there are circumstances where it can be necessary and a positive step for families. When a marriage is characterized with abuse, whether that is verbal, physical or psychological, there is absolutely no doubt that there are situation when staying together is more harmful than splitting up.
When you are making this decision, one of the hardest things might be to communicate with your children. If that is the case, below find four strategies to help you begin the conversation with your daughter or son.
- Choose the right time and place
- Do it separately with each child
- Be honest yet age appropriate
- Emphasize what will remain stable
- Encourage questions always
These questions (and a great deal of learning to listen!) will do a lot for you and your relationship with your child and your other spouse. You can always have the conversation with the children together (two parents, one child), but that really depends on each couple and their relationship dynamic.